| Frequently
Asked Questions
Can a person come out of Homosexuality?
What does my thinking have to do with homosexuality?
At what age can a person become a homosexual?
Can I be healed in my body of anything, even aids?
Is there life after death, and where will I go?
Can masturbation cause problems, and, is this a sin?
Can I keep my old friends once I become a Christian?
What can I do to keep my children from becoming homosexual?
Is suicide a sin?
How do I talk to homosexual people about Jesus?
Will God receive me back, even though I’ve backslid?
Can you help me?
Can a person come out of
Homosexuality?
“Of course a person can. I am living proof of this fact,
regardless, of what some people may think or say. In my book, Dying
for Love: The Plain Truth about Homosexuality, I answer this question
in depth in chapter 64 called, “How to Be Delivered from Homosexuality
or Any Bondage.”
What does my thinking have
to do with homosexuality?
Plenty. “For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.”
That is what the Word of God has to say in Proverbs 23:7, and I
know form experience, this is very true. The way we think, can bless
us or curse us. In my book, Dying for Love: The Plain Truth about
Homosexuality, I answer this question in depth in chapters 62 called,
“How I Became Homosexual, chapter 63 called, “A Deeper
Look into the Brain,” and chapter 66 called, “As a Man
Thinketh.”
At what age can a person
become a homosexual?
From my experience, and research, I have seen homosexual tendencies
in children from 4 years old and up. As a rule, when the child starts
masturbating, then the child is imprinted, after a time, into a
homosexual mindset. In my book, Dying for Love: The Plain Truth
about Homosexuality, I answer this question in depth in chapters
62 called, “How I Became Homosexual, chapter 66 called, “As
a Man Thinketh,” and chapter 69 called, “How Parents
Influence a Childs’s Sexual Development.”
Can I be healed in my body of anything, even aids?
Yes, you can be healed of anything. The word of God tells us in
1 Peter 2:24 that we are healed by His strips. Healing comes from
the love and power of God, and I should know. Jesus healed my body,
when there was no else who could. In my book: Dying for Love: The
Plain Truth about Homosexuality, I answer this question in depth
in chapter 65 called, “The Power and the Blood.”
Is there life after death,
and where will I go?
Yes, there is life after death. And most assuredly, every person
will eventually taste death, and find out. Hebrews 9:27 declares,
“ It is appointed for a man to die once, but after this, the
judgment.” If you are saved, born again, and washed in the
redeeming blood of Jesus Christ, you have nothing to worry about.
You will go to heaven. You will be alive, and, you shall never die
again! God is love, and, His love will redeem you and keep you safe
for all eternity. But on the other hand, if you are not redeemed,
then, you will go to the lake of fire, according to Revelation 20:15,
and, Revelation 21:8. This of course, is your choice. Believe and
receive, doubt and do without! In my book, Dying for Love: The Plain
Truth about Homosexuality, I answer this question in depth in chapters
59 called, “The Way Up and Out, chapter 60 called, “The
Joy of Salvation,” chapter 61 called, “The Dawning of
a New Day,” chapter 65 called, “The Power and the Blood,”
and chapter 77 called, “The Prophetic Word.” Now I ask
you. Is there life after death? You will find out.
Can masturbation cause problems, and, is this a
sin?
Yes. Masturbation can cause problems, and, if you are thinking
of another person, other than a spouse, when masturbating, then,
it can most definitely become a sin. In Matthew 5:28, Jesus tells
us what takes place when we look at, or imagine, having sex with,
or lusting after someone who is not a spouse. This kind of lust,
is a sin. In my book, Dying for Love: The Plain Truth about Homosexuality,
I answer this question in depth in chapters 62 called, “How
I Became Homosexual,” chapter 63 called, “A Deeper Look
into the Brain,” chapter 66 called, “As a Man Thinketh,”
chapter 71 called, “Sex on the Internet,” and chapter
72 called, “Briefly, sex in History.”
Can I keep my old friends once I become a Christian?
In my opinion, no. And, I will tell you why. Your old, unconverted
(un-saved) friends are of another persuasion. Usually, they will
want to party, or do “whatever” that will stunt your
spiritual growth, and, in the end, pull you back into your old sinful
nature. Yes, it does seem logical that you should win them to Jesus,
but, are you “spiritually” strong enough right now to
do so? I have found, that when my old friends found out that I had
become a Christian, well; they did not really act like my “old
friends.” When I didn’t sin with them, they became distant,
and acted like they were afraid of me. I soon learned that it was
the “sinful nature” that didn’t like me when it
saw my “Jesus nature.” Why? Because the sin nature had
a hold on their soul, and didn’t want me telling my old friends
about Jesus, and salvation. Remember, there is a spiritual war going
on. The devil is trying to take people to hell, and, Jesus is calling
people to salvation and heaven. Pray for your friends, that the
devil will not be able to fool them, by leading them to the fiery
pit with him! 2 Cor. 6:14 tells us, “Don’t be unequally
yoked together with unbelievers. And now for more information, read
my book, Dying for Love: The Plain Truth about Homosexuality.
What can I do to keep my children from becoming
homosexual?
Read my book called, Dying for Love: The Plain Truth about Homosexuality.
Is suicide a sin?
Yes, I believe that it is. Why? Because, Jesus wants a person
to give him their life, not take it by killing themselves. When
a person wants to kill themselves, usually that means the person
has given up the will to deal with their bad situations. Or, you
might say, the person does not want to fight their battle any more.
They are tired, and cannot see any other way of dealing with their
intense pain of life, or of body. Fear, also plays a role in a person’s
life in helping them to decide to give up and die. Yes, I too wanted
to commit suicide before I became a Christian. Why, because I was
emotionally hurting so intensely, that I wanted to be free from
the pain, fear, and the loneliness of despair. But thank God, that
He had other plans for me, and for all of us! “I shall not
die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord!” (Psalms
118:17)
“The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.” (Psalms
23:1) The Lord is our shepherd, and, He will “fight the battle”
for you! He will always give us the strength that we need in order
to take us to the next step, one at a time, to victory, healing,
and yes, to full restoration of soul and life! Remember, when a
person kills their self, well, they find out that their misery does
not end. They find, that their miseries are only multiplied. Why?
Because, when a person steps out of their body, they are still alive.
And whatever state that person was in when they took their life,
it will be way, way worse for all eternity. Life is not always easy.
But life is just a twinkling, compared to eternity. For more information
on this subject, read my book called, Dying for Love: The Plain
Truth about Homosexuality.
How do I talk to homosexual
people about Jesus?
Just like you would to any human being. But, remember, gay people
for the most part, has been very wounded in their spirit. Pray first,
that God will give you the right words and compassion to lead that
soul to Christ. And, in my book, Dying for Love: The Plain Truth
about Homosexuality, I answer this question is depth in chapter
67 called, “Understanding and Ministering to Gays.”
Will God receive me back, even though I’ve
backslid?
Yes, He will! 2 Peter 3:9 declares, “The Lord is not willing
that any should perish, but that ALL should come to repentance.
John 6: 37 also adds this, “Those that come to me, I will
in no way cast out. Also, I answer this question in depth in my
book, Dying for Love: The Plain Truth about Homosexuality, in chapters
59 called, “The Way Up and Out,” chapter 60 called,
“The Joy of Salvation,” and chapter 61 called, “The
Dawning of a New Day.”
Can you help me?
Through Jesus Christ, yes, I can help you. First of all, you need
to read my book, Dying for Love: The Plain about Homosexuality,
and in the back of my book, I have my Address and Contact Information.
Reading my book will give you enlightenment, and will help you understand
what kind of help you really need. But remember, without Jesus,
I can do nothing. (John 15:5)
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